Articles & Exercises
Short articles with practical exercises and meditations for the way.
Relationships
Before You Look for Them: Who Am I When I'm in a Relationship
There's a question many people ask at night: "why does this keep happening to me?" The same kind of partner, the same distance,…
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Three Breaths Before You Respond: Getting to Know My Patterns in Relationships
The argument started with something small. A cup not put away, a message not answered. And within a second we're inside something…
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Peace with My Parents: Seeing Them, and Seeing Myself
There's a kitchen, a smell, a sentence someone said thirty years ago. And to this day, when we walk into our parents' home,…
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Who Sits at My Table: Your Family Lineage and Your Life Now
Imagine a large holiday table. Around it sit parents, grandparents. And behind them more generations, whom we may not have known,…
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Is What I Feel Only Mine? On Intergenerational Trauma and What Research Knows
Some people live with a sense that something heavy accompanies them, and they can't find its source in their own life. A fear…
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The Child Within: How to Meet Them, and What They Want to Tell You
There's a moment like this. Someone says a small sentence, and suddenly we're seven years old. The heart tightens, the throat…
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The Voices Within: Getting to Know My Parts
There's a debate going on inside. One part says "go ahead, say yes," another whispers "don't you dare," and another simply wants…
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Approaching Pain Slowly: Inner Parts Work and Focusing
Some things happened, and we still feel them today. In the body, in reactions, in a fear that jumps in uninvited. And sometimes…
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What Irritates Me in Others: Shadow Work
Some people simply irritate us. His self-confidence, the way she always talks, the arrogance, the weakness. And we ask ourselves…
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Back to Source: Meeting Who I Am Beneath Everything I Learned to Be
There's an hour in the morning, or in the evening, when the world settles. We stand by a window, and for no reason we feel…
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Meeting Myself: Three Small Questions You Can Ask Every Morning
Many of us can answer "how are you?" without thinking. "Fine, thanks, busy." And beneath that answer is a whole world nobody…
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